Thursday, July 16, 2009

I Miss You Hon...Terribly... :(

Being a military wife is one of the hardest role you could imagine. Who would like to be left behind and take charge all the responsibilities at home? Who knows if the President of the US will deploy all the military personnel to IRAQ or send them to a dangerous area somewhere? It will be a devastating experience for me. Greg and I have been married for almost 5 years, and this is the first time we got separated. I am not used not having him around. He's my wind beneath my wings, and without him I can't fly. I know it is hard. This experience is pretty rough for me, and I know I am not the only military wife who feels this way.

Greg has been working in the military for almost 20 years now. I am glad that he is in the Air Force Reserve and not on active duty in the military. Akesha and I miss him terribly. Even though he calls us everyday, but how I wish he's here with us. He is stationed in South Carolina AF Base right now, and will be home after 2 weeks. :( We miss you a lot hon. Take care always, and I love you. We can't wait to see you soon.

42 comments :

out of the blue said...

please cheer up mommy, just get yourself busy with blogging. before you know it nandyan na si hubby mo. xoxoxo.

shydub said...

Kawawa naman tsang ko at inday akesha, namimis ang man of the house. Tulog tayo ng marami tsang para matapos kaagad and 2 weeks, kawawa ka naman. Talagang mahirap pag wala ang asawa lalo na kung nasasanay ka andiyan sa tabi. I enjoy mo nalng araw mo sa blogging, then call your banana everyday para hindi ka ma banana sick hehehe. At buzz mo lng ako tsang if you need someone to talk.

Sus kung ako naminyoan katong airforce friend nku preha siguro ta sitwasyon tsang. heheheh hala uli nko sa akong buklid ciao!

vhingF said...

nakaiyak ka naman ...kaya mo yan , sa una lng mahirap ! just think na lng na for the family sake kaya need to sacrifice. 2 weeks lng eh.....hehehehe.

pagnaho homesick ako dami ko natatapos work. paspasan pa gawa ko ...hahaha..namalayan ko gabi na pala.

sabay iyak pag nakahiga na.wahhhhh.

Chuchie Lopez-Wilks said...

it is really scary being a wife to a military sis...i am glad na my hubby stayed here for quite a long while na almost a year. Sauna nga pbalik2x ra from Iraq, it was very scary oi...it is hard to sleep at night knowing the fact that there never was a good and peaceful news reported from Iraq..ambot og ngano cge butuhanay na diha nga lugar

hopeful said...

Hallo sis, mahirap talaga if being away from our partner in life. Kaya mo yan! Ako gni for 2 years kinaya kong being alone raising my 2 kids but with others help.
Wish ko nga lang na ma approve na akong visa for my family to be united. huhuhuhu! Ang buhay talaga ang daming kelangang e sacrifice!

Lulu said...

mami dhemz it is really hard lalo na first time to be away... sagdi lang inig uli ni greg pagrumble dayon mo para bayad sa kamingaw hehehee

bOjoy said...

:( lisuda ani ui. brave gyd akong tan.aw sa mga asawa ug army. it's really hard but cheer up mommy! just keep ur prayers strong =) amping permi

Betchay said...

Hello sis,

I thought you used to it na,kay first thing I knew about military its always far away from the family,I didnt realized that this is your first time being apart from your hubby....yeah its really sad and lonely for both of you ni akesha.

Cheer up and get busy,para dili ka ma sad diha...blogging 24 hours a day! ahahaha.

katherine said...

haguy, mingaw man gani maski ing-adto lang sa mall nya wa ko kauban, kana pa kahang 2 weeks straight di ka uli...pero sa umpisa ra mana Dhemz, maanad ra ka madugayan..mutukar ra ba ang mingaw kung muhigda naka hehe nya tan-aw sa anak haguy kaguol baya sa dughan....tama si shydub..pag blogging lang diha kay aron ka malingaw...

Dorothy L said...

It is hard to be apart form your partner. In a sense it is also healthy to have this break...it really brings forth your love and admiration for your relationship:)

chubskulit said...

oiiist kung di pala sya umalis sa navy, magreretire na din sya ano sis..

I know how you feel.. As what you've said, make yourself busy and the next thing you know, greg is back.. mwah!

David Funk said...

I couldn't agree more with Dorothy's comment. You two are great people, and this happened for a reason for you both. But being this is the first time this happened for you two, it is very understandable why you feel this way.

I'm not one to give advice in your situation because of a child missing a parent as well, but I think it is best to find some things enjoyable while he's away.

Best wishes for you and yours my very dear friend.:)

Rosa said...

naiiyak naman ako. mahirap talaga maging asawa nang military!:(

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madz said...

Oh Sis, I guess mahirap nga 'yan. Ako nga kahit BF ko palang si Paulo namimiss ko na siya kapag nadedestino sya sa ibang lugar. Mas at peace kasi ako kapag alam kong nandun siya sa bahay nila kesa naglalagay.

2 weeks, waah, ang tagal.. ilang days nalang sis? Konting tiis pa.

Mhar's Display said...

Don't be sad. Everything will be alright :)

Mharms

Juliet said...

hi dhemz, ay ingon ana gyud na ma miss gyud nimo pero hapit na pila na lang ka adlaw magkita na pud mo. tc :-)

Cindy said...

Cheer up!!!

niko said...

oh my! two weeks? thats so long enough. but i know kaya mo yan girl.. mabilis lng nman araw :)

smile na ganda!!!

Jacky said...

sorry to hear that your bana is away for awhile.. yaan mo madali lang araw.. paggising mo isang araw nasa tabi mo na uli cya....

Cyber.sys said...

i hope gud for ur hubby.....nd 4 u too....pray may god bestow all his blessings on u......and make u brave frm mentally.....happy smiles...

Analou and Bones said...

I bet it is really hard dhemz. Ako gani malayo lang sakong hubby for a day perte jung paita. I felt like I can't stand alone. I am happy for you nga mag-uli na siya 2 weeks from now. I am sure two weeks is still perteng jung dugaya. Ingat my friend and god bless.

Hi! I'm Grace said...

Sana magkalapit lang tayo para mabisitahan ka namin. :(
Ingat lang talaga kayong dalawa ni Akesha diyan.

Meryl (proud pinay) said...

abaaba magkatunggali sa idea si Ms.D at Mr.D oh hehehe

nako sis, i agree kalungkot nga iyan...2 weeks..matagal tagal din yan..anyway..ym mo na lang ako pag kailangan mo ng kausap.

kittykat said...

aguy!!kalooy sab nimo Inday oi..don't think about it too much sister di mo lang mamalayan two weeks will just pass by..tapos balik na si banana diha..sometimes its better for couples to miss each other..somehow it will bring back some sparks..malay mo madungagan na si Akesha pagbalik niya,,,hahaha..

Beng said...

bilis ng araw..before you knew it ...2 long weeks is almost over...c",) yngat kayo ni akesha

ghieGANDA said...

oh my sissy.. smile kana.. without ur knowing, hubby's home na. how's akesha keeping up? kaw?

i sent u an email about 3 days ago. nareceive mo ba? heheh..

mishu sissy.. hope to hear from u. muaaaaaaaaahhhhh!

Cecile said...

Dhemz, i wished i was there to cheer you up :-(; take care and keep youself and akesha busy so you can at least forget of Greg being away from you even for just an hour or so, guys. Greg will be home soon.

Anne said...

Sis, makahilak man sad ta ani oi. Perti jud i can relate. Layo lisud jud. Hay! just imagine sis na it's for the family naman. Everything has a reason. Ingatz kau sis while your banana is not around.

Lisa said...

Military pala hubby mo Dhemz. Marami akong friends sa TX na military asawa nila at yon nga, most of the time naiiwan sila pag naka-TDY hubby nila sa ibang lugar. Pero kaya mo yan sis, ang bilis lumipad ng araw. Mamaya andyan na hubby mo. Cheer up!

josie said...

keep on posting to keep you busy..^_^

nuts said...

i know what you feel, mahirap talaga malayo.. cheer up gurl.. keep busy blogging..:)

Mrs. Stevenson said...

you are 100% right sis. my hubby is an active army for and he was deployed two weeks after I had our first child. he was gone for 15 months. right now he is an army recruiter for 3 years which is good for us. we finally have time to spend as family. he is planning to convert as full time army recruiter so he doesn't have to go back to deployment. so I understand what you feel. hang in there!

Cacai M. said...

oizzt.. ang sweet naman ni Madam misis sis Dhemz.. heheh.. I hope all will be well with you and Akesha there sis.. anyway, it's just 2 weeks and computer and phone is right-away so, be cool and as usual.. muahh! og ahh.. nasakzpan naa diay u fon.. hheheh.. I understand Madam sis.. muahhh!

amiable amy said...

hmmm...yeah, i know a lot of Filipina married to a military personnel...that is really hard...maypaka gani girl kay naa ra imo bana diri sa US...ang uban baya kay tua assign sa pang gubatan...

Cge lang, dali ra man naa ang days. Ayaw lang ihapa kay seemed like years. Lingaw nalang blog hop ug writing your sentiments like this. Daghan ka relate.

I am back! Hehehe...busy ako life this week. Posted why in one of the blogs. Rest ko karon til Wednesday. I am doing well. Abstika jud nimo sa PR oyy. Salamat for informing me. Kuhaon napud naa ni google tawon kay naa naman offer ana nga advertisement.

Clarissa said...

Cheer up,Mommy Dhemz!!Ayan pala,di ko kasi nabasa ang post na to--akala ko kung ano na ang nangyari sa yo...
Two weeks lang naman ang alis nya,isipin mo na lang na ganyan din ang feeling ng asawa mo--pati cya miss ka rin nya at hinde lang ikaw pati na rin si Akesha!

eden said...

siguro ganyan din ang feeling ko pag wala si hubby. military sad siya before but 4 yrs before he will retire, he resigned for his family. sayang baya kay wala man siya kahulat sa 4 yrs.mao work pa gyud siya hangtod karon. dali ra kaayo ang panahon dhemz. before you know it balik na siya.so cheer up and keep blogging para dili kaayo ka mag mingaw..hehehe

have a nice day

Greg said...

Honey,

It is me. I am writing from SHAW AFB in South Carolina. Your post made me cry, but I am glad that you got a lot of comments from your blogger friends to cheer you up. The first week is over, and now we start our second week on Monday. I will be home before you know it. Today we had to run a 3 mile run called the Warrior Run which made me quit tired since I am not use to all of this excercise. Keep yourself busy, and I will be home before you know it.

I love you and Akesha...

News Trend said...

Hello sistah.. Tugnaw diay ang gab-i nato sini...Budlay baya pag wa si fafa sa aton house kay mingaw man sad.

Cge lang sistah bawi lang ka unya pag finished na ang compulsory attendance nya sa SC.. kamo ra diay diha ni Akesha? Tawon maghalong unya mo kay kamo ra duha diha. But at least safe man diha sa inyo I guess.

Just occupy yourself sa blogging sistah para dali ra ang adlaw, before u realize it, 2 weeks are almost over.. kita na sad mo banana nimo.. ahem.. medyo hidlaw jud ta ani sini dayon.. basi masundan na si Akesha ha?

Kami diri, medyo busy busyhan man sad kay everyday naa me sa gawas. Ang past time ko sistah is studying how to bake hehehe
Palagpat ra gud kay basi may matun-an man kita.. before I didnt know about baking jud.. but right now, Im learning hehehe.

Musta na ang weather diha sistah? Super hot na baya diri sa amoha.. full blast jud ang central A/C thats why I hate summer kay init.

Pero OK LANG BAYA kay at least di man humid diri, dry weather lang.. sa Taipei is super humid man gud.

Sorry, talagsa na lang me makavisit sa mga katribo nato, pili ko lang kay kapoy na me masyado from the whole day activities.

Ayu ayu diha sistah ha, lock mo cgurado door nyo kay kamo ra diha.. mwah mwah.

marife said...

ooi, ka sweet :) cge lng dhemz, pag balik adto you'll get lots and lots og hugs and kisses. Kinsa inyo kauban dha karon dhemz? dli ba hadlok? Murag safe man tingali dha sa inyo. Ayo-ayo and kisses to little Akesha :*

chelle said...

Sis, muzta ka na? I hope, ok ka na ngayon...

Tita Beng said...

Hi Dhemz! How are doin' now? I just hope naka-cope ka na! Sweet naman your Hon. He can feel your loneliness that he's trying to pacify you with his loving and comforting words. Ohh.. sweet talaga!